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ASK LADY ESQ. Relationship advice from a divorce attorney. Dear Lady Esq., If California doesn’t recognize your marriage (because you were married in a different state to someone of the same sex), can you still get divorced in California?  What … Continue reading →

ASK LADY ESQ. Relationship advice from a divorce attorney. Dear Lady Esq., My girlfriend’s widowed mother has made several sexual overtures to me over the years. At holiday get-togethers and family outings. I certainly would not act on them, but … Continue reading →

ASK LADY ESQ. Relationship advice from a divorce attorney. Dear Lady Esq., My wife of twelve years recently disclosed to me that two years ago she had an affair with a co-worker that lasted for three months. I had no … Continue reading →

ASK LADY ESQ. Relationship advice from a divorce attorney. Dear Lady Esq., My ex doesn’t want to talk to me because it was a very painful break-up. Should I respect her wishes and avoid contact, or try to spark some … Continue reading →

ASK LADY ESQ. Relationship advice from a divorce attorney. Dear Lady Esq., I need your sage advice. Here is my story. My girlfriend, whom I’ve been dating for the past year, has made clear to me her desire to have … Continue reading →

ASK LADY ESQ. Relationship advice from a divorce attorney. Dear Lady Esq., What do you do when your core values clash with “society’s”? When your friends, family and everyone you meet needs to place you in a box upon which … Continue reading →